AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at email@example.com.
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August 2007 - Our FA was Orso di Monte Ribelli, a 59 year old from Italy
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: Since the beginning of my puberty, when I was 11-12 years old. Of course I had to wait a long time before having real experiences, but I'm an FA since these days.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I've been always very open about my attraction to large women, everybody knows it, relations, friends and acquaintances.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to ssbbw?
FA: The fact that in SSBBWs all the feminine characters are extremely developped: Big, big, big breasts, hips, butts and thighs, a great abundance of fat (and women's bodies have in normal circumstances more fat than men's bodies), super softness and warmth.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: Size-wise perfection begins at twice-and-half the 'ideal' weight. But who am I to frown upon BBWs smaller than perfection?
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: Sincerely, I cannot find any different joy in being with SSBBWs, BBWs and 'normal size' women. They give me joy in the same way, the joys of being with a woman are the same, whatever her weight. Of course, SSBBWs have the above-mentioned super-feminine characters that turn me on, but this is basically a physical thing.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: I have yet to find one peculiar to SSBBWs and BBWs. Their drawbacks are the same of other women.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: It would depend on the kind of relationship. If the woman and I had a purely sexual relationship and both of us agreed on it being based only on sex, (in short, if the fat surrounding the woman is more important than the woman herself) I would make clear that after the weight-loss surgery she would be of no interest to me. If the relation involves feelings and sentiments too, if the woman were more important than the fat surrounding her, of course I would stay and support.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: Yes, of course. I would help acquaintances and friends, so I would do even more for my woman.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: Not now. In my young days yes, I had limits and I thought that some women were too big. Slowly these limits went up and up and up, and now I think they disappeared. No, a woman too big does not exist.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: All of you are beautiful, all of you are wonderful goddesses, all of you are sexy. Do not let anyone impose on you discriminating ideals and models of beauty and if they do stand up and fight. We FAs will be with you.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: We know how wonderful BBWs SSBBW are, we are proud of our tastes, we stand by our women, let's help non-FAs in getting rid of weight-bigotry and meaningless ideals of beauty.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: Look around, listen, talk to people, try to understand and you will see that common ideas about fat people are totally wrong. Open your mind and you will see that nobody should be prisoner of models of beauty.
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Orso. [firstname.lastname@example.org]