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FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues

What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at

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September 2008 - We profiled Fred, a 53 year old from Germany

SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?

FA: In puberty and the years after I had an eye for chubby girls and women with large pendulous breasts. I was 17 when I first read about NAAFA, clubs for big women and men who admire them. It was fascinating reading this. Immediately I knew I was such a man, a man who is attracted to fat women.

SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?

FA: I have never tried to hide it. On the other hand I never shout: "I love fat chicks!“ My current gf is a SSBBW. We live together, so everybody is able to see what kind of woman I prefer. In a certain way I am an FA-exhibitionist, I am amused when people figure out that I love that special kind of females. I feel no need to hide it.

SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to ssbbw?

FA: For me SSBBWs are extreme female women, nothing's sexier. I love the jiggling body, the unique curves, the large breasts, hips, thighs, arms, legs, calves, the belly, the beautifull rolls.

SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?

FA: I found my Mrs Right through an ad in a fat-related dating site 5 years ago . She has spirit, creativity and a sweet heart.

SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?

FA: SSBBWs are wonderful. Whenever you touch a SSBBW you feel the softness and voluptous curves, They are very lovely persons. And I am a man, they are sexy!

SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?

FA:Long walks are not possible. Lots of chairs don't fit. Hills can be a barrier.

SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?

FA: I would not leave her. Besides, most people don't loose much weight through surgery.

SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?

FA: Sure I would stay. But this topic concerns also relationships between thin people not only fat people.

SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?

FA: Nobody is too big for life and love. As long as you are not immobile and you are healthy there is not a too big.

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?

FA: You have the same rights as every thin woman! Keep in mind for lots of men you are a goddess! Men do like women who are confident, first comes personality!

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?

FA: Don't be shy. Preference for fat women is a normal thing, do not hide it. It's your decision, it's your life, Love it or leave it. If you leave you will miss what only SSBBW can offer you. As long nobody asks there is no need for outing or hiding. All what you have to do in public is holding hands with your goddess. Be sure many guys will be jeaulous of you because they have the same preference like you but they live their FA-sexuality only in fantasy.

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?

FA: You may find the SSBBW / FA community strange. Maybe you will not understand that women don't waste their time with dieting. Maybe you will be shocked when you find (half)naked pics of fat women who claim that fat can be sexy and men who love exclusively them. But consider, these people are all human beings, they have fears and desires, they have plans, they want to live their own life, they need love. So please be tolerant and in future when you see a fat woman holding hands with a man you will know that's BIG LOVE. You should accept fat people, and that's easy to fulfill., that's all.

SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Fred.

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