AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at email@example.com.
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October 2008 - We profiled John, a 47 year old from Tennessee
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: 30+ years
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I dated women/ladies of various sizes until i was 17, then I dated a ssbbw and was hooked, she was intelligent, funny and great in bed, she was also 3 years older than I was. That was my introduction to the only body type I will date from now on. I have been married 3 times and all three of my wives were bbw/ssbbw's so I am confirmed in this area for life.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to ssbbw?
FA: The incredible warmth, and softness that a ssbbw has, not to mention the fantastic curves that she has. I love being able to hold my lady in the night while watching the snow coming down, or making love to her in the middle of a rainstorm on a living room floor, or even watching her moonlit face while she sleeps. Nothing could be better than knowing someone legitimately cares for you, and is not put off by your size while at the same time knowing that you are there for her no matter what.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: I am a breast man so I'd have to say someone who is top heavy. Most of all I enjoy the feeling of holding someone in the night and enjoying the ample curves that bbw/ssbbw's have..... what more is there to say bbw/ssbbw's rock and they definitely rock my world.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: Knowing that she is yours and yours alone. Sex is fantastic. My favorite quote is "the bigger the shirt the better the skirt" and this definitely applies to bbw/ssbbw's. I am looking for my princess, any takers out there?
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA:Well I guess it depends, some people think that excessive weight is a prime candidate for strokes, heart attacks,and early death. What most people don't understand is that in a lot of cases you have to look at the reality that first and foremost the excess weight is hereditary. It goes without saying that medication in some cases plays a significant part of the increase in weight. In a study I did some years ago the fact is that every 4 to 5 thousand years a cycle occurs in which the bodies of men, and women alike change from skinny to heavy usually just before a major crisis of some kind when the human body develops a need to store excess fat to be able to survive for long periods. Another problem stems from the fact that many women are told that they look unattractive, and as a result they need to lose weight, this is usually by well meaning but under-educated relatives and friends who are trying to be helpful but more often than not are a hinderance. Ssbbw/bbw's are how God intended them to be, so it is to the general publics best interest to learn to live with them and love them and whether the general public likes it or not ssbbw's and bbw's alike are here to stay.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA:If it was a matter of life and death, yes I'd support her decision. As to staying with her, yes absoloutely. Part of the marriage covenant says "in sickness and in health as long as you both shall live untill death do you part" that pretty much says it all.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: Yes and I've already been there and done that.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: No, I don't think so.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: We as a society are just starting to loook at bbw/ssbbw's as people and while I've been an FA for years its taking longer for the status quo to catch up. Don't ever give up, there are many men out there who would give their eye teeth to meet and be with someone who has "amplidge" but are just too shy to make their move. If you see a guy you are interested in make eye contact, if he returns it and your eyes lock then you have a pretty good chance to have an open dialog. Who knows it may lead to the relationship of your dreams. Remember you are a person with real living breathing needs and desires, and you deserve to have the best that life has to offer you. DONT EVER GIVE UP!!!!!!!! EVER.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA:Guys, if you are a closet FA don't be ashamed, the benefits of a ssbbw or bbw far outweigh the detriments. The best thing you can do for yourself is to be honest with yourself. If you would rather be with a bbw/ssbbw admit it to yourself, and while it make take time for others to come around the happiness of being with who you want to be with are in the end ultimately your choice and your choice alone.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: We are here and we are not going away, so get used to it... we have been the brunt of jokes for too long, treat us as you would want your mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, cousin or daughter to be treated ...after all we have feelings too.
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you John.
Additional from John: If any SSBBW or BBW's in Jackson, Tennessee(38301) are interested in getting in touch with me my email is firstname.lastname@example.org. Please put in the subject line: bbw/ssbbw, I have a filter which I can screen these emails separately from the regular emails I recieve. Thank you ladies for reading this profile. Happy hunting, may you find your connections to your FA's and FA's may you find the ssbbw/bbw you long to connect with.