AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at email@example.com.
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January 2009 - We profiled 53yr old Stuart
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: I clearly remember being with a friend of mine at a bar one night when I was 19 years old. We kind of moved in on two women at another table. One of them was an extremely large woman, the other very slim. I pretty much had my pick of the two, and went with the larger lady, as she just looked so cuddly to me. The four of us ended up going back to one of their parents house. I guess the parents were out, but I found a corner with this soft and cuddly girl and got pretty close, but not that close....lol. After doing lots of kissing, I remember one of the parents showing up. Well, that was kind of the the end of the night. All I remember is how good all her sexy curves felt to me. We never did see each other again, but I do think thats what got me so excited about bbw/ssbbw women.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I have to admit, as much as I totally love a ssbbw, I did have my moments where I did hide it from others. Nowadays, I have no problem parading around with my ssbbw girlfriend. Shes the most sexy woman I've ever had in my life. We have an incredible connection.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?
FA: First off, I find that for the most part, they are very warm hearted and very giving women. Secondly, as far as I'm concerned, I've never dated a SSBBW that wasnt a great lover. My girlfriend I'm seeing now, is second to nobody else I've ever dated in the past. Thirdly, the softness of a SSBBW makes me feel so good. The ample curves make for so much enjoyment. I love to massage a SSBBW, as it is so erotic feeling all her sexy rolls. Its so much more exciting than massaging a slim woman. Fourthly, they make the best winter blanket on a cold winter day....lol.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: My ideal woman is one that understand and accepts who I am. A woman thats on the same wavelength makes being with her so much easier. I think I finally have that now with my SSBBW gf, and im very happy about that, as its been a long search.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: I really haven't found anything that isn't enjoyable about a SSBBW. I have to say that the bedroom activities do excite me the most though.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: I've always been a pretty active guy. The one thing that can be a problem is the mobility of a SSBBW. They usually can't move quite as fast as I can, or do some of the activities I do, but its worth the trade off. I know there's been no slowing them down in the bedroom....lol.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: I've always maintained that my woman should do what she needs/wants to do when it comes to her heath. I will never tell her to diet, but if she feels she should, then I'm with her, and it wouldnt make me look at her any differantly. My lady is 400lbs. I know she may lose some weight if she dieted, but she will never be a skinny minny.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: Yes, I would be there for her. Just because she can't get up and about, doesn't mean we wouldn't still have lots of fun. You don't have to go to far to play in the bedroom....lol.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: To me, there's no woman that could be too big for me. The bigger the better as far as I'm concerned. Its just more to love.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: If you are a FA like me, then you know how special a big girl is. The men who are stuck on the skinny women don't know what they are missing, although I do think there are many men who do secretly love a BBW/SSBBW. They just hide from it.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: When society brainwashes us into thinking that fat is not where its at, we start believing it. Really though, fat men and women are people just like you and I. In fact, most are much nicer than alot of the regulars in society. Be openminded, and accepting of anyone, whether they are super large, or skinny as a rail. We are all people afterall.
Stuart also says: If I could have every SSBBW in the world with me in a room, I would have a cuddle for every one of you. :) I'd be happy to hear from any SSBBW out there. My email is: firstname.lastname@example.org.
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Stuart.