AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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February 2009 - We profiled 37yr old Matthew from Southern Illinois
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: I've been a FA since childhood. My Grandfathers married big women and I watched how in love they were. It just seemed right. I have always seen the beauty in the BBWs and SSBBWs.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I never tried to hide it in any way. When all my buddies were checking out the models in magazines and on TV; I was not finding any one out there to look at. I looked at the women around us who were big girls. They were lovely and nobody was giving them the time of day.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?
FA: I like the way we have so much in common, I am a SSBHM. We can talk about our lives with a knowledge of what each other went through in childhood. Also, look at all the sexy bodies.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: I am living with her right now. She is taller than me, at 5'11", and is in the 400 to 500 pound range. She has a great sense of humor and a beautiful face. Her body is full of sexy curves and an ample bosom.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: Like I said earlier, I love the way we can have a common knowledge and she can love me like nobody's bussiness. SSBBWs are so able in the lovemaking department. When you want it rough you know she can give it to you like that and when you want it soft and gentle there is no one softer or more gentle.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: I don't know about all SSBBWs but my girlfriend has mobility troubles sometimes. She can't go dancing much or enjoy a nice restuarant because she gets too warm or selfconscience. No walks on the beach because her knees and ankles hurt her. I love her so I don't talk about those things too much.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: Yes, she means the world to me. I have given my heart to her. I will love her no matter what.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: I would. She deserves the best I can do for her.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: I think so. I think if you can't get up and go to the bathroom on your own you should maybe look into finding some help with being more mobile.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: Get up and get out there and find a good man or woman that you can love. There are plenty of men out there. You gotta check out the Myspace and Yahoo groups for us SSs. I met my girlfriend there. We have to been together for 6 years.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: You folks are good folks and don't let anybody try to change you mind. Love who YOU want.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: The men and women in this world come in every size and shape. Please don't let that keep you from experiencing a loving friendship with any of GOD's children.
Matthew also says: I just want to thank you and all the great SSBBWs out there who don't let the world get them down.
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Matthew.