AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at email@example.com.
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July our FA was LuisCXG, from Puerto Rico
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: I believe I have been an FA since I was young boy. Since I have 12 or 14 years old. Since I hit the puberty. Before, I didn't care about the size of a lady. If she's thin or thick. But, when I have reached that age, I only have eyes for the ones with so many curves. I wasn't lucky in love, so I began to look in women that are older than me. When I say older, I say they were 20 years older than me. It wasn't easy, in my country there is no consciousness about a big community until the ending of the 1990's. Still, there isn't local groups or organizations dedicated to BBW's, SSBBW''s, BHM's, FA's or FFA's more than a few beauty contests. The Internet is the only place here to have an access to this kind of culture.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I used to be too shy, so I didn't talked about it when I was young. Now I talk about the subject with everyone with no fear. I didn't know who is or not against my preference, but all respect my point of view. It's in my nature. Why to hide it?
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?
FA: First, before to talk about the physical aspect, I'm attracted to SSBBW's that have a good sense of humor, intelligent, mature and self confident. In the physical aspect, I'm attracted to tall, busty, pear shaped SSBBW's but it may vary. Also, when I was in college, I discovered that I'm attracted to big women with big and round plus sized feet.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: My ideal woman is the one that makes me feel the illusion of love. Who makes me feel that we are falling in love together spontaneously?
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: I think it's so very relative. It depends if you're a FA or not. Really, I enjoy big hugs and kisses. I like to kiss a lot!!
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: The main drawback is the lack of self confidence of your partner to be at your side. Sometimes, a relationship could be turned in a living hell when there's no trust between you and your partner due to a lack of information and past's refusal experiences.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: If it's for improving her health and quality of life, surely yes!!!
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: I consider myself a being at home guy and more if I have to take care of my beloved one. Love is love for good and bad times.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: Yes, Indeed. I used to weight almost 400 pounds (181 kgs.) some years ago. During that time, I was in my home practically imprisoned in my bed. Now, Iím in my actual weight of +330 pounds (+150 kgs.) I can go out of home everyday. For me, the freedom of movement is the main reason to lose some more weight. Now, my goal is to fight a sleep condition. I can lose some more weight and stay big because my physical constitution makes me being big. Also, my preference for big women would stay right there. Each and every one of us knows how to deal with our size.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: To all big women reading this I will wish to tell them to be more confident of her selves. Don't let your past to be a roadblock in your future. Not all FA's are the same. Here we're too much respectful FA's that knows how to treat a lady as the gentlemen we're and are very interested in your inner beauty as your outer one.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: I have only on thing to say to them: treat respectfully a woman no matter she's thick or thin. All of them have a heart. Treat them the same respectful manner you want your mother or sisters to be treated.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: First, I will wish to thank you for reading this. My best hope is to show everybody than FAs are real people. We do exist. Is nice to have people who aren't big with such a curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community. I recommend you to read more, to find out for organizations or groups in your country to get a better perspective in the acceptance culture. Don't be afraid of being yourselves just because this is the basis for real happiness.
He also says: If you want to share with me you can send me a message at my Forum Profile (LuisCXG)
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Luis.