AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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December our FA was Sven, a 42 year old from Springfield, Mass.
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: Well to be honest it all started when I was 12 when I lived in Hawaii when I saw this very heavy lady I think she was about 375 and she had large hips, thighs and a paunch if I got that right, later I saw on a show called Evening Magazine there was a BBW with very large breasts and she was very curvy. When I was 16 I found BUF and it was a magazine for big women now they had stories about SSBBWS and I found a movie that had women that were SSBBWS. Then I joined NAAFA in 1990 and I was not sure about going out with a BBW because I am very shy around women and I saw other guys who where FA but I didnít know how to talk to people about it. So when it came to the dances I wanted to attend but I was so shy I skipped out on them until 1996 then I got the guts to go to the dances and I felt at home. My late best friend was a 360 lbs and she became my first lover and she passed away 9 years ago and I miss her a lot.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: At first I tried to hide it. My mom found the BUF magazines and she said you need the lord. But my dad was a different story he said that is the way you are. The other so called friends laughed at me so I had to hide my preference for a long long time. Then I found some real friends who loved big women.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?
FA: This is an honest question. I am going to give you a give you a honest answer. Well I am attracted to SSBBWS because I want to be different than most FAs. So to be honest the biggest woman I ever been with was 380 but when I saw the rejected TV ad with two women who where over 400 lbs and I loved it and I feel that I am more attracted to SSBBWS who are 400,500,600 lbs.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: That is a honest question so again I have to give a honest answer. My ideal woman she has long hair, nice personality, height between 5í4 and 5í7 weight 400 to 600 lbs. Full breasted curvy down to earth woman who wants to love me for me and I for her.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: To be honest I have never been with one so I cannot say about it but I would say this. I would not need anyone anymore if I was with a ssbbw.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: Clothes I think.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: I would support her I would less attracted to her but I would stay with her.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: Yes I would.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: Not really.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: That if you would find me attractive and talk to me to get to know me, I could be a great friend and maybe something more too.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: This guy is one of us.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: Try it out to see if it fits.
He also says: If any one wants to contact me my e-mail is Svenm2112@yahoo.com, same on messanger and I will email them back asap.
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Sven.