AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at email@example.com.
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March 2010 our FA was Héctor López Cardiel, a 37 year old from Madrid ( Spain, Europe)
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: was born actually FA. As long as I can remember I have been always attracted in a intense way by the fat people, the fatter the better indeed. I realized being very young about my attraction to fat rolls, flabby wide curves, smooth fatty velvet figures and their personality.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I hid it till I was 18 YO. I was ashamed if anybody could discover my secret, I thought I was the only man in the world with this feeling about fat females, this kept me out of any date during my teenage, as the girls I loved were very fat and no one wanted to meet them, I wanted so much to ask them to be her boyfriend but never had the courage to say anything. When I was 18 and after talk with my friends, I told it to my mum and since then I say everybody that I am deep attracted by SSBBW.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?
FA: This is a special question to me, as I am attracted not only by the fat lovely body but also by their inside, I mean I find super fascinating the way a SSBBW use to be, of course there are sweet SSBBW and also witches, but I think most SSBBW are angels on the earth but this society treat them so bad that usually they have to build a wall to avoid that mistreatment. When somebody ask me how can I feel attraction to a 400 Lbs woman I say that it is simply my feelings as you like blonde or dark girls, or white and brown people, so I am and I do not have to justify it, if they think I am mad I just leave them to be around me , they do not deserve my friendship . I love big bellies with deep belly button, fat rolls all over and very soft, I find strong attrcation to super fatty thights, it make me faint. It is super sexy these chubby ankles all fat surrounded. In a SSBBW I love all, and when i say all I mean every inch, love doubl/triple chins, round faces, fatty feet ( mmm) and of course private area, you know, the sweet treasure they hide among hot fatty flesh and a irresistible wide overhanging big butt, my favourite I have to admit, first I notice with unknow women. When one bring the admiration to SSBBW in his blood I suppose it shows with this strength. I do not apologize for that, on the contray I am proud of it.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: Well, here one can reply being politically correct and say what would be a not reprehensible answer or be honest and describe my true ideal woman, so I will, though that doesnt mean one could not fall in love with any no ideal woman. Let's go then. My ideal woman should be fat of course, very fat preferable. She should be a foodee proud to be so obese, a woman fond of food and her softness, so proud to enjoy of one sunny day on the beach on bikini or in the swimming pool. Should be fat everywhere and proportioned. A good cook woman as well. Regarding the personality I love cheerful women with sweet look in her eyes, kindhearted, a kindly person with a big sweet heart pushing her to help needy people and a goddness on the bed, you know. She should take care of her health too as be fat and foodsee do not meant to be unhealthy. She should try to to live up to above ideas.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: To me there are many , first the feeling to be with a goddess on the earth, a woman whom wish to be with all the time. SSBBW make my heart beat just taking a look , no necessy what make me feel under a sheet. I enjoy all with her size related, clothes, furniture, food ( see a SSBBW eat turn me on a lot, lol), ... so live with a SSBBW would be as if all touched by her would become magic, as if she would be surrounded by a magical halo. All will be a joy.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: I cant think of any drawbacks as long her health will keep good.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: Here again I can be politically correct but I won't. If there were a true illness which would lead her to do it, yes I would say with her, if not I will leave her free to take the decision to be happy if she wants it , but I could not support her , I couldn't despite I know I had to support her as it would be her happiness.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: As I thing I have already explain, my attrcation to fat women go further to average FA use, and of course if she would become immobile I would take care of her pleasantly, it would not be a unpleasant duty, but a lovely task. I would cook for her, help with personal hygiene every day to keep her clean and comfortable, accompany her to enjoy , I would try to give her all she would ask me and sure I would fulfill her sex desires everyday. I would be also very happy , though I would rather she could move to go out and get more experiences in the life, meet people, enjoy traveling, going to the see or to the mountains, ...
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: To me there are no limits, I find super gorgous any SSBBW no matter how fat she were.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: I suppose some of my answers have terribly upset them, for the the rest I would appreciate to contact me writting an email . I believe united we stand. I would like to get in touch with SSBBWs from differente countries and share opinios, experiences and maybe do something together to change this fat unfriendly world.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: Here in Spain most FA are hidden , if they do not come out millions BBW and SSBBW will keep on feeling sad and undesirable, so I would ask them to open their attraction to fat women on public.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: To fat people and their admirers not conscious of the big Size Acceptance movement I would invite them to inquiry about it, they will be pleasantly surprised by the people into that movement and will be more happy at the end. To the rest I only could expect any positive reaction to open-minded people, I would ask for respect, solidarity and humanity. Parents, friends, classmates, workmates should treat fat people as human beings, show empathy.
Hector is not only physically attracted to SSBBWs but also feels a strong attraction to them as humen beings, that is he is both attracted to the outside and inside. Because of this he founded the first Fat Acceptance Association Worldwide on the Internet in Spanish. All pages he found were 99% English (USA / UK) with some in German, French, Italian and other minority languages but found none in Spanish despite it being the third spoken language in the world, hence he created www.gordos.org and the association behind it. A website to give information to spanish-spoken people all information about Size Acceptance, BBW, SSBBW, FA, BHM.
He promotes fat aceptance and the fight against fat discrimination, he is a member of NAAFA and tries to go further to help more and more people, fat women, fat men and their admirers to join all together and step by step change points of view in society.
He says, "I always says that fat people are human being above all, also defend that a fat or super fat women or men can be so or more attractive that any other, and that there are millions FA and FFA who find them very hot and sexy despite popular belief."
Please visit his site at http://www.gordos.org/