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FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues

What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at

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February 2011 our FA was James, a 19 year old from Australia

SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?

FA: I realised I was an FA early in my teens during my first years of highschool and have been one ever since.

SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?

FA: I've probably tried to hide it from my family to an extent, I've never openly talked about it with family but I'm sure they've noticed as all my girlfriends have been BBW’s. With friends however I have openly discussed that I do prefer bigger women and have even tried to persuade other friends as to why they are attractive to great success.

SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?

FA: I find that ssbbw’s are more attractive because to me they have the same features as an average woman but bigger and better and sexier. I love every curve they have and there's just more of them to cuddle. I've met a few SSBBW’s and for some reason they are more individual than most other women, they stay true to themselves and I really find that a great trait.

SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?

FA: My ideal woman is definately someone who is confident with themselves, someone who is smart and a little bit devious. Plain is boring to me, someone who has a unique personality and loves being an individual. Many ssbbw’s I've met are like that, which only gives me more reason to be attracted to them.

SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?

FA: They know how to have fun, great personalities and tend to be great people. Not to mention that they are incredibly sexy. And I love someone who actually enjoys a meal I cook for them rather than eat a small portion and let the rest go to waste.

SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?

FA: I honestly haven't found any yet, and even if I did I really doubt it would stop me from being attracted to them.

SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?

FA: I would totally support her, although I would love her being as big as she was, she would never stop being beautiful to me. I would most definately stay with her, even if she isnt as big as she was she is still the same great person.

SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?

FA: Most definalty, I'm a pretty empathetic guy and I can't say no to a damsel in distress. I'm always more then happy to be there for someone who needs me.

SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?

FA: I think there is a point where it starts to become a little bit unnatractive but it all depends on the person as well.

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?

FA: Stay true to who you are, there are honestly plenty men out there who are definatly looking for women of all shapes and sizes you just need to find them. Also don't change yourself to please others, in the end your happiness is what matters most.

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?

FA: I salute you all!

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?

FA: Don't judge it until you try it, you might just surprise yourself.

James also says, "If your reading this then thank you, I hope its been of some interest. " You can contact James at

SSBBW Magazine: Thank you James.

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