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FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues

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March 2011 our FA was Dr. Lickalottapus of Foreskin Radio*, a 30 year old from Vancouver, B.C.

Editors Note: This profile has been edited for content.

SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?

FA: I’ve loved heavier set women since as far back as I can remember. ..I would say around age 13 or 14.

SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?

FA: Oh yeah! Now more than ever before, I love who I am and in that sense I also value my opinions, interests, and taste in women. I’m not insecure about any part of my interests in larger women since I turned 26 years old. My friends used to tease me about it, but I just ignore them because their opinion of me, as well as everybody else’s, doesn’t really matter at all to me anyways. No other type of woman gets me more aroused than a nice, solid & curvy, chubby, thick, overly-voluptuous bbw and ssbbw!! ;)

SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?

FA: Well, it’s the amount of meat on their bones. I LOVE women with LOTS of fleshy, curvy, sensuous, voluptuous meat! Every time they jiggle when they walk, or the way their curves and waist/hip/thigh/calve pudge fold out through their tops, pants, shorts, or skirts…EVERYTHING! I love women with massively big hips, large meaty thighs, huge breasts, and really enormously fat asses!! ;)

SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?

FA: A pear-shaped ssbbw with humongous breasts, ultra-wide hips, fat meaty thighs, long hair, and a sexy voice that turns me on whenever she giggles. I love a woman who LOVES to eat because I love to cook! And I love sexually masochistic women who enjoy being made love to and beg for it often. That takes care of the physical/sexual component…and as for intellectual; my ideal woman would love to meditate, exercise, do yoga, and believes in a Higher Power and has her spirituality leaning more towards Shamanic or Eastern practices such as Taoism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Shinto, etc.

SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?

FA: All of the cuddling, and plenty of meat to grab & hold on to.

SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?

FA: I’ll be honest here ladies – hygiene. An ssbbw needs to keep really clean underneath all of those sumptuous super-sexy voluptuous folds. Her vagina and anus need to be properly cleaned as well (and I KNOW it’s hard at times, baby) but I am willing to help her bathe. :)

SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?

FA: Yes, I would support her and I would stay with her. But I would highly encourage her to keep the extra pounds on just for my sexual satisfaction. However, if her health is at risk, then by all means I will take the necessary steps to support her and stand by her side through it all if she were to choose to make the decision of going in for weight loss surgey.

SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?

FA: Yes I would be there for her, but I’ll be honest here: before it ever got to that point I would let my voice be heard so that she knows of my concerns STRICTLY FOR HEALTH REASONS.

SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?

FA: I think once it becomes an impediment to successful copulation THEN (and ONLY then) would I consider her size to be a “problem”. I personally believe that there are no “problems”; there are just mere opportunities for discovering new solutions.

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?

FA: Be proud of who you are! Love yourself! Celebrate your bodies, for it is the vehicle for manifesting ALL of your material & spiritual desires. BE RESPONSIBLE with your bodies and most importantly, I’ll say it again, LOVE YOURSELF BABY! :)

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?

FA: We all know what’s up! ;)

SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?

FA: Different strokes for different folks. Your media is poison and telling you daily what to and what NOT to find attractive, consume, purchase, adhere to, accept, shun, abhor, reject, embrace, disgrace and hate or love. THINK FOR YOURSELF. Let your innate libido guide you and if you find a man or a woman attractive, no matter what his or her size, just embrace it!

He also says, "Feel free to e-mail me if you’re an ssbbw or bbw in the Vancouver, Canada area looking for a date! *muah!* lova ya!

SSBBW Magazine: Thank you.

*Dr. Lickalottapus is one of the co-hosts for Vancouver's underground podcast Foreskin Radio. You can find it at... The podcast is to straight men what "Sex And The City" is for straight women. They are open to all lifestyles and people, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, religious background, body image, etc.

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