AN FAs VIEW
FAs (Fat Admirers) and their views, thoughts and issues
What is is like being an FA in today's society. What are the joys of living/being with an SSBBW. Are there drawbacks? Let us know at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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August 2011 our FA was Van, a 73 year old from Sarasota, Florida
SSBBW Magazine: How long have you been an FA?
FA: I have been a FA since the mid 1980's.
SSBBW Magazine: Have you always been open with family/friends about being attracted to large women or did you try to hide it?
FA: I do not try to hide the fact that I prefer a SSBBW or BBW over any other type of woman. Just like I do not hide the fact I am a practicing nudist. I AM NOT in the closet with either subject.
SSBBW Magazine: What attracts you to SSBBWs?
FA: SSBBWs are happy people, understanding, loving, generally easier to get along with, accepting, trusting, and leave a definite shadow from the sun when they turn side ways.
SSBBW Magazine: What is your ideal woman?
FA: My ideal SSBBW or even a BBW weighs around 250 lbs, is my height (5'9"), and has at least 40D breasts.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the joys of being with an ssbbw?
FA: The joys of being with a SSBBW are that I can hold hands with her, put my arm around her big firm waist and flaunt her to all the men I see and that look at her.
SSBBW Magazine: What are the drawbacks?
FA: There are NO draw backs period!!!
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman wanted to have weight loss surgery would you support her? Stay with her?
FA: My current "Lady Friend" is now contemplating Lap Band surgery and I would fully support her in this. Of course I would stay with her. She is considering this due to her weight creating other medical problems. A woman who has this is always going to remain larger than normal.
SSBBW Magazine: If your woman was unable to leave the house or needed constant care and help because of her size, would you be there for her?
FA: I will always be there for her no matter what.
SSBBW Magazine: Is there such a thing too big?
FA: I would have a problem with a SSBBW who weighed more than 300 pounds.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the SSBBWs reading this?
FA: For the SSBBWs who are reading this I would say most men do not want you but rather a hour glass figure. That is there choice. However, there are plenty of men who do desire a SSBBW so go out and find your man. Be fair though and sell yourself from the very start as either a SSBBW or BBW. I have had excellent results using Craig's List.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to all the FAs reading this?
FA: FAs reading this already know what type of women they prefer and that is a SSBBW or even a mere BBW. All FAs know what they want or they wouldn't be reading this or have their own SSBBW/BBW.
SSBBW Magazine: What would you like to say to those just reading this out of curiosity about the SSBBW / FA community?
FA: If you are not a SSBBW/BBW or FA and are just reading this out of curiosity then WELCOME to our wonderful world. You have absolutely no idea what you are missing.
Van also says: I have been married now for many years in a sexless marriage of convenience. My wife knows about-permits-and encourages me to have a "Lady Friend" as I have a high sex drive. I bring good luck to my "Lady Friends" as most of them have found husbands and gotten married within six months of being in a LTR with me. I have been in a serious LTR with my current SSBBW "Lady Friend" for 9 months now and she has no desire to have a second husband. . We are together at least one day a week and sometimes twice.
My gmail address as: email@example.com and I welcome CHAT about this subject from anybody. If you have further questions just ask!
SSBBW Magazine: Thank you Van.